my wife doesn't care when i'm sick

Would she normally kiss you before going to work? Submitted by notgonnalosemyself (not verified) on Fri, 04/14/2017 - 09:54. Best of Luck to you all and I look forward to reading your story. I take care of her in sickness and in health.but our kids still come first. Submitted by thparkle on Tue, 03/20/2018 - 11:36. I scrolled through my phone contacts and one name popped out, an old mutual friend of ours. Everyone desires someone to pay attention to them from time to time, without having to demand it or schedule it . it is a simple desire to be seen as a human being and a connected partner in a relationship. Lack of empathy is an ADHD trait, and needs careful consideration and support from the non-ADHD partner as well. So I choose to let it go and know he is limited by the ADHD and other disorders that are undiagnosed until he can be humble and let go of his pride, and that right there is bigger than any disorder one can have. He is Always the "Victim" and Everything is Always My Fault! They'll let me be to recuperate, since they know it's nasty. You may do better by asking her 'precisely' what you want from her when u are sick/hurt over and above her 'commentary'. He has the attitude of "Well, that's the past", "this is now". His brother was paranoid-schizophrenic, diagnosed at 18 and died a few years ago from drug addiction. Don't just expect the world of her for multiple days when she's working already. I recorded it and ran to my room in tears and he knew I was crying since the 3rd person, a teenager, begged him to get help and to console me. All part of marriage, I guess. Never underestimate the callousness of the narcissist. Do you think being obnoxious made him FOND of me? At one point my manager demanded I go see a medical doctor, which I already had, and because I was past two weeks of antibiotics and still sick, I was refused treatment. Being in a constantly defensive state (as are the chronic blamers of the world) means ADHD adults can become really good at detachingand awful at attaching. Dear Abby is written by Abigail Van Buren, also known as Jeanne Phillips, and was founded by her mother, Pauline Phillips. Are you 5 years old? I hope you left him. All big red flags. You are not important. Whether it's romance, friendship, family, co-workers, or basic human interaction: we're here to help! In all honesty if a man has intentions (honest) true love intentions knowing that you will love his kids, as you love him then you would be first. in Child and Adolescent Development and then an M.A. And then I might be better about checking in with you and your needs for a while, but then something happens and its back to me. Make sure that the timing is convenient for both of you. The next morning I woke up with chills and a fever of over 100. If I ever mention his behavior of that day, he gets mad at me and tells me that "I Never let things go and that I am to blame because I can't "forgive" him". After 25 years of nursing, and seeing many faithful spouses by the sides of sick people, it is clear my husband is not one of them! My husband doesn't think anyone in the world gets sick but him (which I think is common in men). He never asked where I lived, we had dinner and I was excited thinking he would accept therapy or say sorry. Do you always expect your wife to cook everything? Talking to a friend may be helpful, but you might also consider discussing your feelings with a mental health professional. I'm curious to see a female's perspective on this, especially someone who has been married to see if this holds true. a pleasure". So a few months ago I rang him to say my asthma was bad and I needed to get to If your wife grew up like I did you are never going to be happy with the level of care she gives you, because its completely foreign to her. (Different situation for the writer of this post.) She doesn't care that I am in pain because she feels my feelings are unfounded. Because in his mind, I'm supposed to be taking care of him.not the other way around. If you read anything about attachment theory, the bottom line is that if you had a parent who didn't attach to you, or rejected you, then you mostly likely develop an unhealthy attachment style you use with others. Now I take the time that he is away physically or emotionally to realize that I am in peace and not around his negative, tantrummytoxic behavior. I take and I take, and then I take some more. This is the response of a person who lives in the present. He doesn't want to connect it with his choices of not doing relationships very well, if at all. This is daunting to say the least. Was she sick recently and you didn't pay attention? That's absurd. Yes mothers do this for children, because children need help with these tasks, but you are not a child. I've seen SO deeply moved by the plight of others. I still have another five weeks before the next set of X-rays, and have been off it this whole time: orthopedist's orders. Like so many of the other posts, writing this post and sharing my feelings is very therapeutic. But know that people can take a while to be retrained to react differently. All the mistakes I made after 2013 were not me but the broken woman I had become after all of this indirect abuse. Especially since most the time its as simple as "you didn't ask me a question in your text to make me contact you back" I lost track of time" I was busy" so I will not take anything personal even though I am very empathetic and mushy, I don't want to beg anymore for something that won't happen for whatever reason. Become a Mighty contributorhere. I have taken you for granted. Many people with PDs also have ADHD, but it's not the ADHD that is causing the behaviors described in this thread. Contact Dear Abby at DearAbby.com or P.O. Have enough respect without ego to treat yourself with a non-toxic man or woman. But the AD/HD is so strong, it overrides that. WebMaybe he's the kind of person who doesn't want to be bothered when he's sick. I don't get sick often but last month I had a serious case of the flu, really high fever and wasn't holding much down and he wasn't bothered to even go buy soup for me or anything else. I was recovering from major surgery ~ he saw it that I had 6 weeks off from work! Thank you for reminding me that it's me and my wife with each other now. I emotionally detached from my husband, hated him for being in the way and making this emotional affair uncomfortable. Someone who would listen to MY dreams, and want that for me, as much as I want his dreams and goals for him, and to help each other achieve those, if in our power. I occasionally get teary about it, my feelings were so hurt. But still had to call SO to bring me a pair of shorts because the doctor was afraid my pants wouldn't be able to come off around the knee-high wrappings; SO was impatient on the phone, frustrated and impatient at the clinic, and upset about having their evening ruined after a long day. Friday afternoon he gets home from work and goes to give me a kiss and I tell him that he shouldn't kiss me because I'm getting a scratchy throat and most likely a cold and his response isn't one of sympathy, instead it's "Greeeeeeat! The ADHD Effect on Marriage was listed in Huff Post as a top book that therapists suggest all couples should read. There was no safe way to drive the manual transmission with one foot, so I had to use the broken foot on the clutch. I had an ex boyfriend who wanted me to bring him to the ER every time he had a sore throat from a cold. He made me pay that year for leaving. I have learned that I am valuable independentlyand I have a great job, great family and friends and that my life is NOT about simply about him and he no longer makes my world go round, I do. I like the don't be upset if I pull a you on you comment. That lasted about 6 months for us and about 2 years for me to get over. My A-Hole ex Husband was a jerk to me when I broke my foot the year before we divorced. I grew up in a house where you were basically quarantined when sick. But it only works if it's recent. Acknowledge the wrongdoing. Describe what you did, and why it was wrong.Promise not to do it again. Mean it.Ask for forgiveness. Thats This is what it's been like living with my ADHD husband as well. I never get any sympathy from him, but my children hug me, draw me upside down rainbows because I am in pain and can't smile, and try to help me. And my lack of ability to insist on my needs put me in a ditch with a broken neck on my moms 60 birthday. And, to feel loved in return, you need to be sexual with each other. There, youll also find thoughts and questions by our community. Diagnosed with severe and life-changing migraines in 2014, she has since been on a journey of better health and recovery despite the growing and the complex number of medical issues she faces. Thanks, man. All big red flags. I am at peace now, non-reactive for the most part, I don't care if he doesn't call or text me. Your partner sounds as if he's not good at transitions (i.e. Should also consider the stress my wife is dealing with at work. Fear,is the one that gets the most use, and what he bases most of his interactions with. That's why the 'pursuit' or 'in your face' strategy that you are using fails. There is something good though. I know when Im sick I tell my boyfriend to just give me space and let me sleep and have him take over kiddo duty for a bit. Those of us who marry into it, with the person NOT thinking their ADHD is that big of a deal, create a lot of consequences for themselves AND for us, since in marriage "two become one". I think the non spouse has to be less of a giver and move to the attitude of-I'm in this life for myself just like you demonstratedaily that are in it for yourself. So I've (40m) been married ten years now and I love my wife (40f), but she has the most annoying behavior pattern whenever I am sick. Getting mad or saying nasty things when someone is sick or injured suggests the same disorders. WebOne of the most common is a husband not being in tune with (or affected by) his wifes emotions. It always boils down to me getting sick on purpose! (And he sees this as a good thing)half done, with walls half painted. WebIs it normal for a husband to not take care of his wife when she falls sick? But at the end of the day if it is really bothering you well then you need to talk to him about it and tell him how it made you feel. Love. Have been married for 4years now. I handle everything around the house, she I've had to take a de-greaser and scrub them all down to get the old slimy grease off of all of them. If I'm sick or hurt (e.g. Submitted by overwhelmedwife on Wed, 12/14/2016 - 06:05. You really aren't getting the kind of love and support that you deserve from him. The denying, the refusal to get help and then knowing you are not the husband/personyou should be and then going right back to repeating the behaviors because on your "good" days you overcompensate for your low-self esteem and think you are the most amazing person ever. Submitted by DependentOrigination on Tue, 12/13/2016 - 10:32. He thinks about "whatever", in the moment he's in. Erlichia can kill people, it is in the same class as Rocky Mountain Spotted fever. Sign #11: Doesnt talk about the future. And vice versa if she's the one down ill. Can't really prepare good food when you're nauseous and fked up all over. Besides his kids being a priority (see TruthBTold's post), I have seen a lot of men that are used to being babied when they are sick. I'm feeling better now! I learned about myself and learned some hard lessons. Now I see, and now I can and will be your Captain Marvel. Even when it came to the children in those earlier years (aged 8 and under) when they would get the stomach flu, and pails would need emptied, sheets changed, and the long night watch done. out of the basement and towards you) and that ADHD symptoms are poorly managed. So if you want to connect, you will likely be the one to have to bring it up. You go through all of this, the burden of having a partner with a chronic illness who is always sick, the worry when I dont text back for a while and you know Im | Lol. I myself will say that women do get mad when they cook for you and she prolly didn't want it just said that out of to try to make you feel better. it's not the same as OCD. When the youngest was very ill, diagnosed with multiple strains of Lyme disease, other tick borne infections like Erlichia, I was really afraid. For many years, Larry Bocchiere cared for his wife, Deborah, who struggled with chronic obstructive pulmonary disease. When he is having a great day, like this past Saturday, my efforts were worth it but I won't pretend that he is fixed. Germaphobe type thing? That is my H 100%! Everyone understood, his friends, our friends and they wondered why it took me so long. We went to the diner and my life changed. If you feel leaving him will make you happy then do it. Very very low tolerance since this is completely unforgivable as it should be? I want to say Thank you for sharing your story. Until you are burnt out, and I finally notice something is wrong. Boy did we cry. It wasnt until recently that I found an outlet for all of this junk in my head. I don't think this is necessarily an ADHD thing. Your sweatn the small stuff it's normal. (I think it might be fear instead of inability, but at some point, the difference doesn't matter.) Thank her sincerely for doing these things to you inspite of her 'reservations'. Its good to have a healthy balance. We havent heard from you in a while, and Im hoping you are ok. Some people have zero bedside manner. I dont expect to be doted on and coddled when Im sick, but some level of Who in their crazy mind would love to feel as the second best on someones life; throwing you with nothing but crumbs, and competing for their attention and love. Join hosts Jeff and Shaunti Feldhahn for this series of six short videos (roughly 3-4 minutes each) called Thriving in Love & Money. Theyll offer helpful tips, informed by years of research and based on their new book, to help you and your spouse explore the underlying issues that lead to financial conflict and consider healthy ways to (not a good sign). Do you have kids that were sick too? If you live together, your partner may want to sleep in their own bed with you. I even passed out in front of my kids on the floor, and they had to yell at him to help me. Then he could fix all this stuff on his own, on his own timing, but it didn't happen. I have made myself the central focus in our relationship. Qualities many w ADDdo not possess. I was a great person to be around but the lies hurt and changed me. He is withdrawing from you, and youre feeling alone. That's not even in my nature.". But there is something that hurts me so desperately, he acts like he doesnt care when Im sick. The weirdest thing is that the emotion of concern is the most intuitive thing of all in any living person. In the second, you instell a desire to avoid you, not connect. Whenever I am sick, all I get from my husband is sorry. He is so sick and depressed. He lovesfamily when they are joking with him, but not if they need him. No words. This means you may think it's obvious when you need a hug or some connection, but they may not 'see' it. That's his job. He despises sickness- like it is a form of weakness or something. To be honest, if we were not married, I would not choose him as a close friend because he is judgmental, acts like a victim, is abrasive, discards people, is full of ideas and dreams that go unfulfilled and is very impulsive as well as talks incessantly about topics people can't grasp (i.e quantum mechanics- high IQ, low common sense). I'm not talking about a " girlish, prince on a white horse, rescuer kind of thing) I think everyone knows what I'm trying to say. I had to step down onto the patio from the back door. I wish you the best. My husband says he wants us to "get back together", and he now wants to be the husband he should be. I agree his kids should come first. How would you like her to act? Being unhelpful when someone is sick or injured strongly suggests either Borderline PD or Narcissistic PD. I had started a new job so I could not take him to get his surgery, but I did leave work early, come home and take care of him, make chicken soup, the whole deal. What? I can not tell you how much I can relate to you and everyone else that has posted. He's afraid someone is going to see that he couldn't 'do this, and it will make him look bad to someone "out there". This has been validating. I start my day with positive thoughts of not retaliating, not overthinking, and not trying to change what I can't control. Iris is also an Invisible Illness Warrior. I've been reading the posts for the last few weeks with great interest. I am not my illness; I am a warrior. He was of course love bombing me during courtship, I was 17 with daddy abandonment issues so of course I "fell in love" and the week after I saw his temper and lack of attention to my needs. So, does he want me around because he's afraid he's dying? I want to leave him but my family is against it. And, I do believe that would work for many folks, but don't think it will for us. A therapist can help you evaluate the factors that have led you to this step and then offer advice about how to best proceed. Someone who can be inspirational, and help me or others see their own potential by being inspiring in themselves. If you are in the full Its an open concept house and he's painted the walls all different colors, but again, half done. We had been friends for years and talked here and there. It's not even his fault because stupid idiot "women" like you let men like him treat you like crap. Everyone, strangers and those that love and tolerate him see an issue. His answer was absolutely not. If your S.O. Right now I'm back at the house trying to get some stuff in order. Stop selling your soul for sex, money or a sense of security. Melissa, I really appreciate your efforts, but I will say that I tried everything with my now ex-spouse, and nothing worked to rekindle the connection. I am a partner though, specifically yours. Perhaps he would consider reading the free treatment e-book (look in the treatment guide for it) and also consider adding some 'attend time' to his schedule. (Sadly, he was not compliant enough with the whole thing and it didn't work). We all experience them. If anything, I am stronger in your eyes. Newly wed so some things are quite new. But god forbid he do anything out of his way for me. The whole thing is just very, very HARD. etc. When I'm sick, yes. But, he can't get past the victim hood yet.). There is no reason under the son a man or woman should be second to anyone when it comes to survival in health, shelter or love period. Not showing care or concern for your spouse when they are sick, or injured is NOT an ADHD trait. However I do notice every time I'm sick, my husband acts as if he sick. Submitted by copingSAH on Mon, 09/29/2014 - 09:42. After a month of separation, I was so happy that I started packing to go back. I hope he gets the help he needs! Press question mark to learn the rest of the keyboard shortcuts. OP, assuming you guys have been married for a long time, possibly for more than five years and your work is what gets u sick and hurt regularly, I'm guessing she was not always like this. He is loved by many, not evil. Lately he finds more reasons than not to leave the house to help someone else anybody else. I haven't been yelled at once while expressing myself. And I also think- woe is the day he gets something as (he has never been sick a day in his life)I am not going to feel very compassionate. I have loved you for a long time, and we have been through so much together, but what Ive recently learned is this: You could care less about my illness. So i'm just learning but this is an ADHD trait? Are you sick often? People are either takers or givers. I mis calculated the drop, my crutches went out from under me, and I fell, landing flat on my back on thecement patio, hard. Remind her of how bad you feel and how much you'd appreciate her help while you recover. It is obvious that ADD people rarely change for any measurable amount of time. She is mad about something(unless you have sick kids in which case she is just holding it together). Anyway, I got way off track here. My husband believes he's Mr. Fix-It, and can fix anything. Only a 4 inch drop, but tricky in a cast. It wont solvefor the dishonesty (and just found a new credit card). She even acts like I am somehow putting her out by not being 100%. She was probably raised in a household without empathy for sick people. In the letter I explained that he needed to get help and I was running to save myself. (again, fear). OMG. (Although I didn't make him do the dishes). He didn't sleep well last night because he was stuffed up, coughing, etc. The one hoarding in the place you are trying to sell? Best Sex Positions to Improve Your Sex Life. Make sure he understands how much you like the connectionbut also how hurtful it can be when it's inconsistent. (maybe?). I offered to set it up on his phone but of course he won't relinquish his phone, which is another story, and the primary basis of my divorce request. Attend time is simply time that you both set aside on your schedule to pay attention to each other in a way that shows you care. Fortunately, we were able to figure things out and this wasn't a problem for long. Submitted by notgonnalosemyself (not verified) on Mon, 04/17/2017 - 14:07. Love, to me, is caring about the welfare of something and wanting to put in the effort and time and attention for it to grow and survive. Submitted by vabeachgal on Sat, 04/15/2017 - 18:15. It CHANGED ME, and I'm not who I used to be. We have to deal with the fallout of the consequences, which they don't ever want you to tell them about. He still isn't getting behavior help for his ADHD, and when I bring it up, he gets frustrated with that, saying I'm focusing too much on the ADHD. That put yourself in these situations and then wonder why things happen to you. The texting got out of hand and the rest is history. Well, to be frank, that will vary from person to person as we all display love in different ways. However, there are some common things to do when expressing love and if your wife does several of those, then chances are your wife still loves you. Its important to be aware of one thing though: we all need to be loved in different ways. Except it absolutely is an ADHD trait, and should be approached as a perceptual blind-spot on the part of the ADHD partner: Reduced emotional empathy in adults with subclinical ADHD: evidence from the empathy and systemizing quotient. Sign #9: He treats you like everyone else. Run!!! You don't want to marry a man with kids, trust me. All this crap about his kids "coming first" is just thatcrap. When you marry, the two When I was3 months pregnant, wetook a trip to Mexico. But if I need or expect something maybe not so much because it wont register as now/love but as someone upset whether the upsetedness is valid or not. That is not an ADHD trait as far as it is with me? Why? If you ever became terminal, he would run for the hills. If he is in a tank with filtration, you need to change about 20-30% of his water weekly. 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